But then, after doing some research on Wikipedia and a few other Ask websites, I found out that he was rumoured to be bisexual, and knowing that it takes place around 1820, where that wasn't acceptable, the poem took a rather interesting turn to it. Now, I think perhaps it is about him sitting somewhere, and thinking of his same-gender love, whom he is unable to see since both his family and the society doesn't approve of the relationship. He's thinking about how he can't talk to them, and only is able to think of them when they wake up alone as opposed to together, which they so direly wish to.
The very first section, which is 'Passing stranger! you do not know how longingly I look upon you,
You must be he I was seeking, or she I was seeking, (it comes to meas of a dream,)
I have somewhere surely lived a life of joy with you,' leads me to think of a few things. Him calling the person he is speaking of 'Passing Stranger' makes me think that he's speaking as if he doesn't know them, and is then confessing things as he goes by. Showing how much care he feels for the person, that he is looking for them, that he's shared a joyful life with them, he's confessing all these things, but not out loud. If he were to admit them out loud then he would surely be reprimanded for it, which means that he's thinking of all these things by his lonesome, wishing that he didn't have to.



